First -- Squee! Legolas/Gimli.

So you may not have been writing slash before you got the Internet -- but you were not "lured" into it like a dark underground society by wicked adults *G* I don't think any kid would ever be traumatised by seeing any sort of sexuality, but then I'm some weirdo who would much rather my kids (if I were to have them, of course) saw naked people than graphic violence!